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| Beth's portrait of Zuzu |
Yesterday was one of those days every pet owner dreads, yet
inevitably experiences; that day when we lose one of our four legged
children. For Karen and me, we decided
that our beloved miniature schnauzer, Zuzu, had lived a beautiful life and that
she had suffered enough through the last few months.
First of all, I want to express my deepest appreciation to Karen
for her empathy and courage in taking on the brunt of taking Zuzu to the vet
and being with Zuzu when she was euthanized. Karen knew that if we both went, it would have
been harder on both of us so she did this (with my consent) while I was out of
town. My biggest regret was that I
couldn’t be with her but she had a good friend (and fellow lover of Zuzu) with
her.
As I was driving home I repeatedly checked the time on the
clock and imagined Karen walking into the office of the vet with Zuzu in her
arms and having to wait. A few minutes
later, I’d peek at the clock and think that Karen was stroking Zuzu and
thanking her for her years of joy and love.
Then a moments later, the clock would suggest to me that Karen was
tearfully saying and sharing our final good-byes.
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| Bailey & Zuzu |
For the rest of the trip I let memories of the last 16 years that Zuzu created for us entertain me; such as:
- Her immediate bond with her older Labrador retriever sister, Bailey (and fellow namesake from the movie, It’s A Wonderful Life).
- Her incessant desire to play ball. She spent hours running up and down our back porch stairs in Marietta chasing a bouncing tennis balls. Our daughter-in-law even painted a portrait of Zuzu in her favorite pose.
- Her laser focus on our many early morning walks (with me and Bailey) back and forth on West Sandtown Rd. Nothing would distract her as we walked our two miles each day in the pre-dawn hours.
- Her cat like independence. When she wanted attention, she’d let you know and expect immediate action. Otherwise, just leave her alone…. until the next meal.
- After we had to put Bailey down (another terrible day), we saw that Zuzu needed a playmate so we brought in Ernie (yes, named for another character from the same movie). They instantly bonded with Ernie becoming Zuzu’s shadow, much to her displeasure at times.
- In the last years in 'our meadow', watching her bunny hop down the road to our house after a short walk.
When you bring a dog (or pet) into your home you fall quickly
and deeply in love. Pet owners always
say that they are a member of the family.
We conveniently keep safely away from our cognitive memory that their
lifespan will be only 10-15 years. So,
when “that” day comes, that grief still hits us like a ton of bricks. As Philip
Yancey so accurately defines, “in grief, love and pain converge”. You swear you’ll never want to get another
pet because of the pain you’re experiencing.
Yet in a few months, you often repeat the cycle and experience that
unique love a pet brings once again.
Yet, for Karen, Katie, and me, this grief pain reveals itself at
another, deeper level. In the loss of
Zuzu, we lose yet another connection with the life of Jacob. Back in 2001 we received Zuzu from a litter
owned by Karen’s cousin, Lisa Sinaird soon after we moved to Marietta. Jacob and Katie were with us when we picked
Zuzu up to take her home. She became fast friends with Bailey and a source of
love and entertainment to all of us. Her
presence in our household helped Jacob and Katie make the transition to a new
community a little easier. When those days when things were difficult at school in making friends, they could home to that twitching stub of a tail and knew that they were loved. It was wonderful to watch
them all grow older together.
When Jacob became so sick before his first transplant Zuzu
was there to bring love and encouragement. And when he was recuperating after the
transplant, Zuzu would play nurse by checking on him with regularity. She was our exclusive therapy dog.
Now we have lost one more tangible piece of shared
experience with Jacob. And we have lost
one more treasured pet who spent their life bringing us unconditional and
continual love.
Zuzu, thanks for your years of love and service. Tell Bailey and Jacob ‘hello’ for us.
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| Ernie, Zuzu, & Elphie |
